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That’s always the hardest part. Breakups and makeups in the digital age.
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If it were up to me, my entire wedding would be a complete tribute to all things Apple and appropriately themed “#iDo.” Unfortunately, my boyfriend thinks otherwise (he’s a PC).
How to Find a Job That You Love and Where You Excel - Simon Sinek
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April showers brings May flowers… or so it goes.
Aldo and I decided to stay in tonight and chat on Skype because of the rain. We can seriously talk about anything for hours. I love that about us.
I don’t know how people had relationships prior to Skype. Not that Aldo and I are in a long distance relationship (he only lives 7 minutes away from me) but he travels a lot for his family business. Right now he’s in the U.K. and will be heading over to Saudi Arabia on Tuesday for another week. With this being such a new relationship, Skype puts my insecurities to rest and lets me stay up-to-date with all the new recent developments in his life.
New Love
It’s funny how life works. As soon as you stop looking for something, it finds you instead. That applies to keys, careers and in this case love.
I met someone special last week when I was least expecting it. Actually, I met him the day after my Un-Valentine’s Day shindig. I’m still not even sure exactly how we met or who said what to whom. That’s all irrelevant and besides the point.
But who would have thought that meeting in a Starbucks parking lot would have led into this blog post and so much more.
Tell Someone How You Feel Today
I did! I told him!!!! :)
Thanks to Shay for posting this on Facebook.
A letter to my friends
Dear Friends:
I understand you want me to be happy. However, I cannot tell the love of my life I like him because I fear getting a letter from HR. And who knows if he feels the same way. I don’t want to make a fool out of myself.
I also refuse to use online dating sites to find my next mate. I’m glad it worked for you and your (ex) girlfriend/boyfriend but it isn’t for me. I understand being single for three years is a long time but honestly, I would much rather have piece of mind and not end up on the sequel to the Craigslist/Match.com/e-Harmony Killer.
In regards to whomever I decide to share my life with next, one thing is for sure: I would much rather not connect with that person online. I don’t want to be his friend on Facebook or see the pictures of him cuddling with his ex. I would rather him not see pictures of me with my ex. I don’t want to read his blog because I much rather talk about his day over coffee or tea. I don’t want to follow his every move on Foursquare or Twitter. I most certainly don’t want him following my every move on Twitter and Foursquare. I can deal with following him on Tumblr though, especially if it’s his artistic outlet. That’s hot.
I think you get the point. As Valentine’s Day ups the ante for having someone special in my life, let’s not forget my happiness comes first. And perhaps now is not the time to focus on love but instead pouring all of that energy into work… and the guy I work with. ;)
XOXO,
Betsy Soler
